Clients over the years have shared with me that my authenticity,
openness, warmth and humor is what inspires them and gives them
courage to step into this in their own lives. During our recent
focus group, this was one of the factors that really stood out,
when we invited them to describe "who is Sheri." In response we
have decided to resurrect the monthly column. Here you will find
all sorts of stories, some from my own life journey, some from
women I know.
It has been an interesting time of transition at the studio.
You may be wondering why it has been quiet and there have been
no classes scheduled. Well...the building the studio is housed
in was sold and we have been waiting to hear if we would
continue to have a home on Main Street.
So many emotions have surfaced during these long 3 months and
I feel proud to say that aside from a few tears of sadness that
the current incarnation of Metamorphosis might end, I rode the
waves and dove completely into the mystery. Let me tell you
ladies, this is what I call PROGRESS! Ten years ago, I would
have been a wreck. Frantically attempting to control all the
pieces so that none of the balls would drop and shatter.
How did I do it? Well, it has taken years of practice and
learning that my first "reaction" is not always the most
productive as it generally is the one that is motivated by fear.
And so now, I notice my first reaction and allow it to live
within me as a meditation, until I can clearly feel the place
where it lives. When possible, I wait until there is absolute
clarity to make the next move. If a decision can't wait, or
requires and instant answer, I check in with a "grounded"
friend, who I know can be honest.
I watched the actions of my fellow building dwellers and the
responses varied. Most of them appeared to be driven by fear. I
chose a different path, direct communication with the source. I
placed the new lease terms back in the envelope and wrote an
open, letter to my new landlord respectfully requesting a
counter proposal. In the end, stepping back, breathing and
asking for what I wanted and not demonizing my new landlord
worked!
The Met will be there awhile longer, we are still not sure
how long, but we will likely be able to let you know next month.
It all looks positive and my new landlords have been great. The
business continues to evolve and grow which we hope to tell you
more about next month. Things are still a bit uncertain, but I
am learning each day how to live in the "mystery" to trust my
instincts and listen to my OWN inner knowing. Thanks for
listening. Feel free to post your own thoughts on living in the
mystery at the Studio Salon
